Oh my gosh you poor thing. To find out that such a horrible act happened to your daughter, not to mention everything else you have going on. I wish I could be of more help but living in the US I'm not familiar with your legal system. Is she living with you right now? I think it's important to have someone with her all the time. And maybe if she's staying with you, the two of you will have each other. I would also suggest that your daughter see a counselor asap to help her work through all that she is still suffering from. They can help her a lot. Additionally, and please don't take offense to this because I suggest it only out of concern for you because I'm very worried about you after this post, I think you could really benefit from seeing a counselor too. They can help you work through this horribly rough time and also help you with tools in coping with the pain. The mental health of both of you is so crucial and you both deserve to be in a much better place with it. Again I wish I could be of more help, and that is just sickening that he walked away with just a warning and she was not even allowed to be in the room to plead her case. All I can say is my prayers are with your family and please please take care of yourself