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Originally Posted by CoralToe
Yellow - I wanted to post a quick comment on the grad school issue....as having gone through grad school I've "been there, done that." When I was applying, and even through my first three years - I did EVERYTHING "for grad school." The best way to explain this is, during my first year, I herniated a disc, that didn't get better. I put myself in misery each and every day - because I thought I had too. I was talked into surgery as a "quick fix" because the surgeon made it sound like I would be up and at 'em a week or so after a laminectomy. Time after time, I put my health aside for school. Now that I am on the other side of things (I now help mentor grad students)....I realize how stupid I was. You need to put your health first. Take the time you need for recovery - don't push it. Call the grad school in question, and explain the situation. Ask if they would be willing to meet with you at a later date. Have a previous professor write a letter to help back you up. Hell, if you PM me the school, It may be that I can even be able to write something (depending on the school) to someone to give you the time your body needs to recover.
-Heather
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Thanks Heather, I appreciate it, and you're right, of course. I need to hear things like that sometimes. I promise I'll do all I can to not push myself, and I'll stand up for my own health and recovery
My school just dropped a bomb on me recently anyway that I'll be 11 credits short of graduating after previously telling me that I'd be fine, and because of the holidays I can't get ahold of them. So unless I can get something figured out, I may have to take another semester in the fall of all electives- something I'm extremely opposed to. I'll be so glad when I'm done with school finally and can work in my career to help children.