Your world has literally been turned upside down and I know you are feeling alone in this. It's hard enough when our pain flares up beyond measure and you aren't getting any support from your husband....doors are being slammed in your face. That feeling of emptiness and darkness must be plaguing you right now. Please, Karen PLEASE don't do anything rash.
Making a hasty decision while you are in this mindframe might lead to the biggest regret you'd have to face.

You and your daughter need each other right now. Stick together, talk, cry together. She needs to know that you believe in her and that this wasn't her fault. I beleive that the guy who did this to her is going to get what's coming to him.

Is there somewhere nearby with whom you and your daughter can go for good counseling? There is no way to lose by doing this. It shows your daughter that you are strong enuf to get the care you both need. It's you and her being a team to get thru this.

Years back, my family was going thru some struggles and I took my daughter for counseling. To this day she thanks me for it because she said I showed her how much I care for her....plus, it did ME a world of good too.

Please listen to what your good friends here are saying, Karen.
You are more than precious to us....

Rae