Hi,
You might want to post in the regular forum below:
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum38.html
This place right here does not get as much traffic.
I am sorry that you are going through this. Your son might not have ADHD or ODD. The medicine for ADHD is probably making the Bipolar symptoms worse. If you can, keep a mood chart. Google "mood chart" to either find print or web based charts that keep track of
1. side effects
2. symptoms
3. sleep
4. medicine
5. and outbursts
The chart will help you when you see the psychiatrist and will help you to keep track of what is going on so you can see progress.
Here is a web site that is good for parents connecting with other parents.
Mari