So sorry you're having to deal with so much stuff, on top of feeling bad
Know that you're on my prayer list, too, now and I hope that your daughter finds a kind, understanding counselor who can help her get through this awful time. Mark was spot on when he suggested everyone in the family at least consider getting counseling. Sometimes it just helps to have someone listen to you and be a sounding board.
Mark: my brother, I was so saddened to hear what you, yourself have had to go through over the years. I can see why you are so close to our Lord, as He is the only one that can truly help us when we face such difficult trials. It may seem like the guilty are getting away with their dastardly deeds, but in the end they will stand before the one and true Judge, the Lord God almighty...and if they haven't repented for what they have done to others, they will get the justice that they deserve. When I see so much wickedness in the world and wonder how on earth the wicked seem to prosper and get away with things, I remind myself that one day all will be rectified.