Hi Deb. Im writing this to let you know that you are not alone. My mum has recently just got diagnosed with bulbar palsy at christmas time.( however for know she is in great condition very little problems except slurred speech and minor muscle wasting). She to is my best friend to and cant imagine my life without her as i am only 18. I will be the one looking after her as i also feel this is my duty and is pleased to do so. Even though this is very hard and it breaks your heart please remember that you are not alone. feel free to email if you need any support ill be glad to be able to talk to someone to. Bonny