17 weeks and 5 different gps ive been telling them of my sympotms they kept putting it down to anxiety and stress cause a day after having my baby she stopped breathing and i had a panic attack i was scared she died they had to ressusitate her i did have some anxiety but that went ages ago i even told one of my gps i thought the epidural went wrong and he said it can happen where the needles pushed to far in and punctures the dura but when that happens your meant to have a blood patch wich is blood taken from my arm and put in my spine similar to another epidural to seal the puncture with blood and form a clot but he never even sent me for that every gp ive seen says take tramadol and beta blockers and dont worry wich nothing helps with the pain and as for worrying im petrified to go to bed im scared i wont wake up and ive got 3 children a 5year old a 3 year old and my babys 17 wks old....thankyou millions to everyone who has replied to me all your comments are really nice its appreciated loads to know that other people do care so thankyou all again i just feel like im going crazy ...i have now got a appointment for 13th january instead of feb 2nd someone cancelled so next friday im going to birmingham queen elizabeth neurology so fingers crossed i get some answers...one question i need to ask to anyone whos under a neurologist what happens first appointments as i dont know what to expect and also what sort of things do neuros do xxx