this morning we were talking and i told him i was getting help. We Were have a semi-decent conversation but he said there was nothing wrong with him and he won't get any help. I geuss thats my answer - huh? How wcan a person deny that they contribute to probelms in a marriage? Now I really have to get going - he won't leave the house and he won't get help but he doesnt want a divorce. He wants me to do all the work , i just cant, i cant.