Hello, and you bet I have been following the posts. You are trying so hard Adelina, and you are being so brave to confront all the issues with your marriage. You are not letting the issues go until resolution happens. You have also given your husband grace to see for himself, what is is doing. I know things aren't going t be easy for you. It never is when you try to make a change, or correct ones life. What ever your decisions are, I am sure that you will make the right one for yourself and your children. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so grateful for the others who also have chimed in to voice their thoughts. Don't be afraid of going forward with your decisions. I want you to know happiness again. ginnie