Definately tell those that can help all the truth. I also posted to a person named alffe, and Chemar, a moderator of the site. They will be posting to you also to offer suggestions. I am soooooooo glad you are taking steps to help. I was afraid I lost your post. I am horrible at navigation on this site and didn't want to loose you. Please keep in touch with me. private message and post to the survival of suiside forum, to reach others who have been through experiences like this. There are many GOOD souls here on Neruo talk to help you. You are not alone, and I have posted to others to help you out too. Don't loose touch with me during this crisis. Others will respond to you soon too. You are very brave, and a loving friend to help her. Don't loose touch I am here for you even if I loose a post. ginnie