Hi mbrook
so sorry to hear of this trauma but glad your friend is ok.

I do think you should alert someone trusted as to what happened as you cannot carry this burden alone, and she may really be in severe crisis that needs professional intervention

Here is a list of Hotlines
http://psychcentral.com/lib/2007/com...phone-numbers/

you may also want to keep this site http://www.metanoia.org/suicide

here is our survivors of suicide forum where the members will be able to give you support and also the best advice possible
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum29.html