Hi mbrook, what a absolutely terrible situation for you. You're doing the right thing by getting someone to come over to talk with her.

Whatever you do though, please don't deal with this situation alone. She really needs to tell her own family how desparate she's feeling and get some professional advice. You shouldn't be left in the situation you are right now as you have your own health issues to deal with.

Is there some way of getting one of your own friends to come be there with you today?

EDITED to add: I see you first posted about 5 or so hours ago.

Please update when you are able.

http://www.dbsalliance.org/site/Page...uicide_suicide
There is also some really helpful info. on this site.

esp.
Recognizing Warning Signs in Others
What You Can Do to Help Someone
Responding to an Emergency Situation