Adelina I haven't forgotten you, I have some health things of my own going on too. I hope you can go forward with the counseling, if it does nothing else it should help you be more comfortable with whatever decision you make.

Here are some more links, maybe they will give you a little head start. Many problems between men and women stem from their differences, your husband will never be able to think like a women and you will never react like a man. I know its hard.

http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008...-so-weird.html

http://www.mastersofhealthcare.com/b...womens-brains/

http://www.oregoncounseling.org/Arti...esMenWomen.htm