It might be time for you to, as you said, "write-off" some of these so-called friends. I know its hard for them to understand, but if they don't TRY to understand and they continue to push you to do things you've told them your not capable of doing...then you have to really question if they are friend or not.

I have 2 friends that know what I'm going through and completely understand. They don't try to push me to do things I can't do. One of them is the person I was with when I got assaulted (he was assaulted too, just not as badly as me) and the other is like a brother to me. I've labeled everyone else as acquaintances.