I am not feeling emotionally safe but I quickly read what you wrote...I think the bottom line is that your brother is out of your hands...that has to be so painful for you. He needs medication. Without medication he is a stick of dynamite and his narcissism really shows. How can you obtain relief? I feel so badly for you. We bipolars need to help ourselves and I don't know what legal means there are for others to step in to help us when we don't help ourselves.
Bobby