Thanks for that info Sal - I too find that I have to press on my bladder quite often (and quite hard) to start urinating - I know I have to go and I feel lots of discomfort in my bladder but I just can't do it - and I often do the start-stop-start again thing.

This is in direct contrast to the times when I can barely make it in time. It varies.

Cheers

Lyn