Miss Ginnie, the appointment this Friday is with the neurosurgeon, not the pain specialist. I've already seen the pain specialist, and an orthopedic surgeon. Those two are in agreement that surgery is needed, hence the 3rd opinion and trip to the neurosurgeon - possibly the one who will perform the surgery. I will make the hour+ trip unmedicated so he can see the quivering pathetic mess I am minus the pain meds. Whoo-hoo, are we having fun yet???

Yes, I totally agree with you, that reading forums like this and seeing others' problems can be humbling when compared to our own. Spine issues are a witch, but it's not like brain injuries or cancer or HIV that other poor souls are suffering with. We (I) should be more aware of our blessings, but it IS good to have a place to come whine, talk, share information & our experiences, cry, or generally have a pity party when needed!

Many well wishes for your upcoming surgery Miss Ginne. So sorry you have to go through it at all.