Hello and welcome, so sorry you too are suffering. Sleeping for me is also a challenge I have yet to beat. I thought about the sleep number bed, but then I said I was going to try out the memory from topper. Right now I am just using pillows for support. It's kind of confusing because My extremities are cold but I wake up feeling sweaty as if I never bathe. I have become very embarrassed so I am always in the tub because I have never been much of a sweater until now. All soaks hurt, but I have found those diabetic soaks and the comfy ones with the vitamin E in them are very tolerable. I have severe pain in my scapula so I always keep a pillow for support. I suggest that you use whatever you can by trial and error to support your most painful areas. I hope this helps.