I'm happy for you, Marion.

I learned while married that my DH never did half the stuff he talked about doing. Early on in our marriage I would get upset if he announced that he was doing something I didn't want him to do or that I didn't think he should be doing.

I learned quite fast that if I just went along with his "plans" most of the time they never happened. He'd tell me he was going to go fishing with his buddies down in Florida and they'd be gone four days. I wasn't crazy about the idea but just went along with it. When the week came for him to go he decided that our gutters needed cleaning much worse than he needed to go fishing.