I think it sounds like more than being upset with your wife your bored.

Two things I read in this last post. Your at home taking care of boys,
which you are fine with to a degree. But you need something to do.
In your new area.

So ideas, I you mentioned she is still going to school. There is nothing
saying you can't go to school too. Either in person in a school or online.
This would help with the boredom. And you would understand her need
for going on right now.

Also you probably qualify for Vocational Rehabilation, and wouldnt' need
her help getting into school. So find the program and go apply.

Next find the local area that you can shoot your guns. And go.

Then learn if you don't know how to fish, as soon as its nice enough.

See what else there is too do. Maybe paint ball, your boys would love that.

Donna