So I have stopped pushing and asking how she is doing. Its like pulling teeth, she is not being forth coming and I'm tired of trying to get info from her.

I am here and I will listen but I'm done babying her.

She mopes around the house only concerned with herself, wanting attention. She is like a black hole sucking all the energy as she follows me from room to room.

I am trying to ignore it and not comment because I feel it feeds her attention getting motives.

What do you think? am I being too harsh? will this make it worse?

I just don't know what to do but I can't be responsible for keeping her in a good mood and validating her all the time!