Thank you all, for your encouraging words. She is doing better. Along with this we are trying to figure out how much do we hover how much space we give her. It's hard to know. Since we are so far away we have to rely on the family member to let us know how she is doing. Apparently she's been depressed for quite a while and we did have her get some counseling last year mainly for some anxiety it turns out that she never told her counselor that she was depressed. She covered up everything and even when she was home over the holidays she seemed perfectly just fine. Now I worry about upsetting her by calling or texting too much.