I think that is great that you both are going together. Approach all of your issues as a team. I am so glad he wants to be with you during the Neurologist appt. and to move forward together. He sounds like a very compassionate man. Do get relief from your depression too OK? Marry in a happy and thrilled state of mind. No depression to start you off with a problem. Do it as a team. I sure wish you all the best. ginnie