my father in law is dying and we are meeting with hospice today. also one of my uncles who was abusive to me also died this week and i'm dealing with my feelings about that as well. I'm ok.... in a strange sort of way. I just can not be supportive right now so i feel if i can not say anything positive then i shouldn't say anything at all..... SO i'll be back in month or so when i'm in a better mental state.... love you guys much. {{{{HUGS}}}}