Hi there,
I wrote a lot on your other threads here, but just wanted to say one bit again... I wonder if she's always been this way or if this is absolutely totally different behaviour that your friend is showing. I hope she's still seeing someone for counselling. Having said that, I hope you have some support systems of your own under these difficult circumstances at home.

You take care there. Sounds such a very tough situation to be dealing with right from the start. ugh.