(((((((((((((( Justice ))))))))))))))))
Even those of us that find ourselves caretakers need support as well. We have to take care of us to be able to give for others. I've learned this the hard way.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
We're here and listening.
Also, don't hesitate to post at psychcentral.com We have some really caring people over there as well. DOUBLE the support for you.
Don't hesitate to PM if you need. I'm an admin here and an admin at a mental health website, so I understand your need to maintain yourself for others. It can be a difficult balance, but again, we're here for you.
KD