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Originally Posted by Mark in Idaho
You friend's head aches and mild seizures show that he has not come close to a full recovery. He may be fully functional, especially from the perspective of a current or former meth addict but when his brain is stressed, his drug use and head injury will be blatantly evident.
We can all aspire to recovering to full functionality but we will never achieve a full recovery physiologically. The damaged brain does not regrow brain cells. It can only grow axons and dendrites. Even reading self-help books does not stimulate recovery or regrowth as it appears a therapist has claimed.
Nick, you will need to have full custody of your son to get the additional benefits from SSDI. btw, I thought you had mentioned that your son was 2 years old. It sounds like he is not even 1 year old yet. If I understand correctly, you were injured last June and your son was born the month before which would be May.
You are approaching the fabulous age of infants, when they are becoming more interactive with their environment, crawling around and pulling up on things. Talk to him in a soft adult voice and he will respond better and sooner. Infants understand voice inflection very well by 6 weeks old. It is important to be cognizant of this ability so you can purpose to keep their stress levels low, too.
Keep in mind that you can call the cops and file a disturbing the peace complaint against your sister's son's father. Do you have a recording device of any kind? Hold him accountable with a firm but controlled voice. Then, call the cops to enforce that accountability. Your peace and your son's peace are the critical issues. Tell him to he can go make noise at his place.
I was not offended by your comments. Don't feel guilty. I have tough skin having lived on the outside for most of my life due to my PCS personality issues.
My best to you all.
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Mark,
My ex-fiance's son is approaching 2 years old. So maybe that's where you got that from? My son was born 5/20/11. He is 8 months. I just wanted to thank you for the tips you gave me on parenting...it means a lot to me.
About my sister's baby's father...yeah. I will take that in to consideration. He was pretty chill today...he stopped by and visited with his son quietly and then left. Last night I told him to turn the music down and lower his voice because I was going to sleep. He listened to me. Maybe he's starting to get the picture?
You said (I was not offended by your comments. Don't feel guilty. I have tough skin having lived on the outside for most of my life due to my PCS personality issues.)
I was apologizing if the information I gave about my past was too much. I just felt that I needed to explain my past in order for you, or anyone, to truly understand what I'm going through.
Nick