People with ADHD often have problems with bright lights too.
They can be over stimulating.

I wonder if taking a quality fish oil, or krill oil would help?
This often helps ADHD people, by helping the nerve membranes in the brain be more flexible and hence connect better.

Magnesium also is very calming and people are often low in this mineral. Aim for supplementing 1/2 the RDA....

Here is my magnesium thread to help you find a quality supplement (NOT OXIDE form) and/or find foods high in magnesium to eat. Magnesium is a cofactor in the metabolism
of fats. Estimates are up to 70% of people in US are low in magnesium because of poor dietary choices.

http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/thread1138.html

Blue wavelengths of light are focused a bit in front of the retina, compared to other wavelengths. In people who are near sighted, the eyeball is not perfectly round, but elongated, and those wavelengths are more problematic and require EFFORT to focus on them. The blue blocking lenses, fix this and relax the eyes more. I use Eagle Eyes for driving for the reason, because I tire quickly in glare. Eagle Eyes do not make everything orange like the BluBlocker tend to do.
http://www.eagleeyes.com/video/driving.lasso