Debbie - You are right and I often do the same thing. Don't get me wrong, I still have my pity parties but I think of all the others who are in a similar situation or worse. And, I think of them and how they deal with their daily struggles and they become an inspiration to me to just keep going. A friend of mine gave me a little framed picture of fish. It's called Phish Philosophy. She gave it to me as a reminder to "just keep swimming" (Finding Nemo). There is a lot of truth in it and I keep the picture on the counter in my bathroom. This way I see it every day and am reminded to keep going regardless and that I have a wonderful friend in this life.