But you cannot have it both ways. Yes, they are just words. But that is what you are here for: words. So words count and they count at lot and should not be dismissed out of hand. I am probably misinterpreting what you said, or meant, and I do not want to do that. But I also do not want people thinking that in forums like this, that words do not count.
Welcome here. I am often at the mental illness sites and look forward to getting to know you a lot better.