((((((alffe))))))
<-----hands alffe a brownie and a cup of hazelnut coffee
it used to tick me off when hubby's family would come over and not treat our home with ( and us ) with respect. never wipe their feet...pick up their plate...bring food to a potluck...kids throw gum in the bushes....neice clip her nails in the media room
it doesn't tick me off that they come less often. or that they are invited less often. those that come now, respect us and our home. it just takes time.