Hello and Welcome to Neruo Talk. You have found a really good site that may be able to help you a bit. Others who have TBI may also post to you with other ideas and suggestions too. I came here under two years ago upset over cervial issues and never left! Found out alot of information about my own condition as well as other conditions.
I am also a very emotional person like you are. Sometimes I over-react, and have been labeled by polar, even though the psych who did an evaluation said no. Saying that, I think a good therapist to evaluate you and all these isses should be looked into. A neruoligical doctor, and a psychiatrist would really help you in sorting through some of the emotional issues you have been having. Don't feel bad about going for help either. Thats a really sensible thing to do when you question your own reactions to stress, old injuries, and your emotional well being. A professional may be able to offer some kind of direction, where you have better control. Doing the therapy for myself was a good thing, and it gave me some coping skills I didn't have before. I hope others will post to you with some more ideas on how to help. I do want to say a warm welcome, and you can go on any of the threads to post or talk to us. There are spiritual people here too, and some of us pray alot. Don't hesitate to talk to any of us. I hope you seek a solution so you can go in a better direction. ginnie