Ok, I have tried and tried to no avail to to "discuss" things with you ** I am done. I did read your post, excuse me for maybe forgetting some of it. **

I am a very compassionate person and **I have been through enough in my short 41 years, to know that 1. I will not be a victim 2. I have to advocate for myself and 3. When people offer help,advice or otherwise, I will accept/decline it graciously whether I agree or not!!

I do wish you a healthy successful journey because that is the kind of person I am. Goodbye.