I was aware of L2L's visitor status. It appeared that she might be hesitant to post enough info publicly. As you said, she could send a PM to a moderator to be reviewed and forwarded if she did not want to post publicly. I was not suggesting anybody had back door access to PM's.

love2laugh,

If you don't want to post information publicly, you can left click on any member's screen name (in the upper left) and a drop down box will give you access to 'Send a Private Message' to that screen name.

You can also use your profile editing features under User CP at the upper left in the Blue Bar to change communication settings and even block individual screen names from sending you PM's.

This forum provides plenty of ways to communicate.

Let us know how we can help.

My best to you.