Thanks guys for your input. I know I have a long road in front of me. I did take his phone, itouch, xbox etc. He is coming home from being with his dad since monday. I'm hoping being away has giving him some time to think. We shall see. He comes home tonight and is probably going to be very upset with me. So be it. I've thought long and hard about what I should do. I will sit down and have another chat about what stress does to me. I will try and put the changes I'm making into place and the rest will be up to him. I have decided that I will be moving out of this town. I figure it might be a good idea to live in a more secluded location. This will take me some time. Basically I will do my best and if I cant handle this then I will have to have his father take over his care. My husband thinks I should now but I have to give my son a chance to do the right thing.

I will continue his therapy and consider the outpatient rehab. The therapist said that sometimes putting a kid into rehab could do more damage cause they learn more tricks.

As for me... I will try and focus on my recovery. I know all this clutter in my life is making me lose my focus. I need to work on that.