Thank you for your input. I am not in an uproar for him trying the pot but his attitude, grades, listening, and the fact he basicall y told me he wont stop. Hes being reckless and was going pick up shrooms that is basically where I drew the lines. Hes been throwing his temper around. all I ask is for passing grades but he has stopped caring. I got him into therapy but I won't let him store his drugs in my house. He wants to be treated like an adult so I will. He is to get a job. If he fails school then he will pay rent. I will put into an acct until he graduates. Its tough but we all know its tough to be an adult. He needs accountability. Im not going to butt heads with him. He has some decisions to make. I hate this tough love but hes got to learn. I confronted him and the next day he was buying drugs.. Thank you all.