(((((((((((((((((((Hydromom))))))))))))))))))))) (((((((((((((((Raffi))))))))))))))).

I'm so sorry you're going through this. What a scary mess.
I want to, first off, suggest
HydroParents home page:
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/HydroParents/ (I am a moderator for this list and will be happy to approve your app.

)
Raffi's situation sounds really complicated.

I had a subdural hematoma waayyyy back as an infant (I'm 40 now!

), but I haven't been through all the difficulties Raffi has and suggest that you ask the nsg all the questions you have. (To my knowledge, there are no doctors of any kind here on NT.) I hope someone can help you.
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