(((((( Kay ))))))
it really does sound like you did and are keeping on doing everything humanly possible... i'm so sorry the other parties are so unresponsive. that has got to be so maddening!

... not to mention frustrating and exhausting as the ball is basically left in your court to push and shove... sigh.
hope things start coming through for you soon in the debt department.
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good luck with the hip consultation. i hope the doc listens and gets you the exams you need.
hope your bowels are more cooperative soon too. the mag citrate should help, but adopting a dose of it as a nightly regimen to stay regular might be better for your system than using it as an extreme remedy when things get bad. you'd need to figure out the right dosage for you starting low, and incrementing on a weekly basis until you get results. clearly, you back off a bit on the dose if it "works too well."
(((hugs)))
waves