It's really difficult for me to attempt to answer because I'm confusing myself with the definition of words. e.g. "wrong" and "right".

I know I made a huge decision many years ago that's made my life way more difficult and in some areas more stressful. However it was necessary and I'm glad I made it the way I did. Wrong? Hard for me to define that word. In retrospect, my only main regrets have been the impact of that decision on others. The rest I deal with.

Vicky, If you need to talk about something privately that you can't share publicly please feel free to pm me if you are comfortable with that.

EDITED later to say I don't know what decision you have made to have you ask these questions.