Zevan, if people are getting confused about your posts then it may be worthwhile to just keep them simple and concise to avoid that.
Most members here do try to offer helpful advice and to be supportive, and when any posts are not kind or helpful, we edit or remove them. But you do need to remember that almost everyone here is having their own problems as well, and so if they don't remember everything you may have said or if they misunderstand your posts, it is most often an unintentional thing.
When I read back over your thread, I see a lot of support and information shared with you.

We wish you all the best as you move forward