I wonder how she might do with an online school?
Would someone be home with her to supervise if that was an option?

If she is saying she thinks about hurting people or herself, I think the therapist /docs need to pay attention to that..

I hope you can find a good resource to guide you.

bipolar useful sticky threads-
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/thread3275.html
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/thread302.html