Whatever you do, don't let him him think that he is an obligation to you. Ensure him that you are helping him because you love him and need him, not because you just have to...

My husband had really difficult time adjusting to the situation, which is very understandable. And it was really stressful for me - I felt just like somebody he can't get away from....until wesat down and talked it through, but before that I was really depressed,and felt alone ( I don't have any family living close to me). I think that really slowed my recovery back then...