Thanks guys. I have told him all this. He comes from a Navy family. His Dad was a strict disciplinarian and other than being very angry and showing that in a totally unhealthy way to him and all his family, I'm not sure how much actual love he got. He got unconditional love from my Mom. No matter what he was doing, drugs, alcahol, anger, running away, he knew he could call Mom. It was such a burden for him to carry her casket. He feels like there is something mentally physically, chemically wrong that he can't express it. I guess I will just try to be there and listen. He is living with a girl and they have a very temptious relationship. Always fighting, not physically. But eventually their little baby will pick up on it.