Friendships can't function without trust. That is the basis of friendship. You cannot control anothers behavior, only your reaction to it. You can't feel the blame if she chooses a negative behavior if you should not care to be friends. Tell her about the trust issue, and the truth. Maybe it will cause her to pause, and go back to council. She needs that therapist, and you need to keep surrounding yourself with those people who have morals, trust, and are able to reciprocate your effort in the friendship. Friendships are the most valuable things we have a human beings, and worth the effort. It should work both ways. Living a lie is not the way to promote that goodness between two people. I would tell her the truth gently, and move out of the picture as best you can. She must change and get some help. Just my opinion. ginnie