Hope your new glasses work out OK. I just wanted to make a comment about beer. That much beer would stop anyone from sex. Nobody I know of can drink like that and function normally. The issues of calories isn't so good either. Not for his health, blood sugar or weight. I hope he can stop. I don't think the problem is his self gratification, more like the drinking. My parents were drinkers, and they weren't physical at all during my growing up years. Hope you are OK. There is a cousin of mine who has MS so I do know some of what you go through. I wish you all the best. I hope your love for each other can see you both get closer. I will keep you in my prayers. ginnie