I would also suggest that you contact the state agency that
helps with families of special needs children. You would qualify
as one.

Also look into whether your state has a chapter of:

Federation of families for children with mental health.

And the Nami chapter or state organization, will also have some ideas of
locations that can help with care for her.

Also there is state funding for mental health lots of time, so check and see
if you can get some help with this. Even with a higher income. And many
states have funding for special needs children.

Donna