Hi Emom. Welcome to Neuro Talk. I am sorry your family is going through these issues. If your child is talking about hurting someone, or herself or family, this is something to pay attention to. I would indeed have her evaluated and go down any road you have to, to get her the help she needs. If one road doesn't work, you find one that will. An in hospital stay can somtimes do wonders. This can be a good experience for her, and maybe get her on a better track. You are doing great, by wanting the best for her. ginnie