I wish I knew what to tell you Mrs. Bear, but I don't. I know that some people just do not get it that you can have problems and not LOOK sick but really are. I am sorry that work is being so hard on you, they really shouldn't expect you to do 3 months of work in a 4 day period. That is just unrealistic! I wish you the best of luck dealing with your employer, I would be just as frustrated as you are if I was in your position.

((((hugs)))) to you and your sick little ones. I wish I could help more then just being here for you to talk to, but I know I am not the only one here for you to talk to so hopefully having us around helps even if it's just a little bit...