nobody is doing anything, so it is going to take something extreme before anything gets done about whatever this and the rest of it is. And while my current attitude and approach has truly become "oh well, whatever", there's this little nagging voice saying "but what about the kids", so I still keep wondering if there's something I can figure out so that I know where and whom to go to from here. Kids went through more than enough trauma with the car accident, they don't need to see mom hauled off in an ambulance because "the weird breathing thing" has finally become "the scary breathing thing" or "the not breathing thing" or something like that.