I have told me wife that I feel fine and I look fine -- I don't have a broken bone. Then I try to do something and it is quite obvious that I am not fine (or she catches me saying something backwards -- "put your sink in the spoon"). I don't catch it, but she points it out to me.

She caught me trying to til the garden the other day. I didn't understand why I shouldn't. She explained to me that I am not safe on my feet and get confused easily. Something could happen. She would rather be with me if I really want to do it.

These specific things that she tells me helps me realize that I am not "back to normal" yet.